{"id":110144,"date":"2025-12-28T06:59:20","date_gmt":"2025-12-28T14:59:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/?p=110144"},"modified":"2025-12-28T06:59:27","modified_gmt":"2025-12-28T14:59:27","slug":"the-fourth-day-of-christmas-the-holy-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/the-fourth-day-of-christmas-the-holy-family\/","title":{"rendered":"The Fourth Day of Christmas: the Holy Family"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span class=\"wpsdc-drop-cap\">H<\/span>appy fourth day of Christmas! <span style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px;\">Today,<\/span> the Church usually celebrates the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/the-holy-innocents-2024\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Feast of the Holy Innocents<\/a>. Because it&#8217;s the Sunday in the Octave of Christmas, it is instead the <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Holy_Family\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph<\/a>. In the Holy Family, God gives us a living icon of family life: child, mother, father.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/francis-on-saint-joseph-the-protector\/holy-family\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-52775\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"240\" height=\"314\" data-attachment-id=\"52775\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/francis-on-saint-joseph-the-protector\/holy-family\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Holy-Family-e1363717547408.jpg?fit=778%2C1021&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"778,1021\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Holy Family\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Russian Icon of the Holy Family&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Holy-Family-e1363717547408.jpg?fit=778%2C1021&amp;ssl=1\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Holy-Family-e1363717547408-240x314.jpg?resize=240%2C314\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-52775\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Holy-Family-e1363717547408.jpg?resize=240%2C314&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Holy-Family-e1363717547408.jpg?resize=114%2C150&amp;ssl=1 114w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/Holy-Family-e1363717547408.jpg?w=778&amp;ssl=1 778w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-primary-color\">Russian Icon of the Holy Family<\/mark><\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And more than that, this being an icon and not just a pattern or ideal, we are given an icon of a <em>holy<\/em> family life centered on God. This family was beset by the problems of the world &#8211; from being refugees in Egypt from Herod&#8217;s wrath right up until the moment Mary&#8217;s heart broke at the sight of her son&#8217;s brutal torture and execution.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And yet, they made for themselves a home, wherever they were. A home of love and domestic joy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Of course, today&#8217;s psalm reminds us that even in the midst of the family home, we are only pilgrims upon this earth, journeying towards our heavenly home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><span class=\"wpsdc-drop-cap\">H<\/span>appy they who dwell in your house!<\/em><br \/>Continually they praise you.<br \/>Happy the men whose strength you are!<br \/>Their hearts are set upon the pilgrimage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; from Psalm 84, Responsorial Psalm for today&#8217;s Feast<br \/>(second option)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Through all their joys and travails, the Holy Family discerned and followed the will of God, and they turned to each other. They become not just the model but the very definition of a holy family.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"525\" height=\"440\" data-attachment-id=\"2953\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/j-m-j\/gerrit_van_honthorst_holy_family_in_the_carpentry_shop_525\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Gerrit_van_Honthorst_Holy_Family_in_the_Carpentry_Shop_525.jpg?fit=525%2C440&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"525,440\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Gerrit_van_Honthorst_Holy_Family_in_the_Carpentry_Shop_525\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Gerrit_van_Honthorst_Holy_Family_in_the_Carpentry_Shop_525.jpg?fit=525%2C440&amp;ssl=1\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Gerrit_van_Honthorst_Holy_Family_in_the_Carpentry_Shop_525.jpg?resize=525%2C440\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2953\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Gerrit_van_Honthorst_Holy_Family_in_the_Carpentry_Shop_525.jpg?w=525&amp;ssl=1 525w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Gerrit_van_Honthorst_Holy_Family_in_the_Carpentry_Shop_525.jpg?resize=300%2C251&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 525px) 100vw, 525px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Today&#8217;s feast is of relatively modern origin. Although the devotion dates to the 15th century (at least), the feast originated in the early 19th\u00a0century in Canada. It was added to the universal calendar by Pope Benedict XV in 1921 and was initially celebrated on the Sunday following the Epiphany.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy fourth day of Christmas! Today, the Church usually celebrates the Feast of the Holy Innocents. Because it&#8217;s the Sunday in the Octave of Christmas, it is instead the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. In the Holy Family, God gives us a living icon of family life: child, mother, father. Russian Icon of the Holy [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2953,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[46,5,31,16,25],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-110144","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-annual","category-holy-days","category-mary","category-saint","category-seasons"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/Gerrit_van_Honthorst_Holy_Family_in_the_Carpentry_Shop_525.jpg?fit=525%2C440&ssl=1","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1aGBK-sEw","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":90364,"url":"https:\/\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/the-fourth-day-of-christmas-the-holy-innocents\/","url_meta":{"origin":110144,"position":0},"title":"The Fourth Day of Christmas: the Holy Innocents","author":"Thom","date":"28 December 2018","format":false,"excerpt":"Happy fourth day of Christmas! 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