{"id":87526,"date":"2016-08-02T09:11:27","date_gmt":"2016-08-02T16:11:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/?p=87526"},"modified":"2017-07-28T09:21:05","modified_gmt":"2017-07-28T16:21:05","slug":"tom-jordan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/tom-jordan\/","title":{"rendered":"Tom Jordan"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"wpsdc-drop-cap\">R<\/span>est in the peace of the Lord, Tom Jordan. You wouldn&#8217;t want any maudlin words or ceremony, but you can&#8217;t stop me now. You could be the most irritating son of a bitch, but you could make me laugh even at that. You never did anything in half-measures. You never let the impossible get in the way of whatever you pursued.<\/p>\n<p>Last year on your birthday, you found out that you had advanced cancer.<\/p>\n<p>When I visited you last week, you were a shadow of your former self, but you still had the fire behind your eyes. We shook hands in parting, and I said, &#8220;be good&#8221;. You gave me that look you always gave me &#8211; the look that said, &#8220;go ahead and believe that if you have to&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>In your farewell message posted today, you said, &#8220;every day since that birthday when I thought I was going to die have been special gifts. Don\u2019t feel sorry for me, I\u2019ve lived a good life. I have travelled all over the United States and the world. I have a lot of friends and family and an amazing daughter. I\u2019ve loved and been loved.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Nobody could have a finer epitaph than that.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"87527\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/tom-jordan\/tom-jordan\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Tom-Jordan.png?fit=502%2C726&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"502,726\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Tom Jordan\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Tom-Jordan.png?fit=502%2C726&amp;ssl=1\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Tom-Jordan.png?resize=502%2C726\" alt=\"Tom Jordan\" width=\"502\" height=\"726\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-87527\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Tom-Jordan.png?w=502&amp;ssl=1 502w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Tom-Jordan.png?resize=104%2C150&amp;ssl=1 104w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/Tom-Jordan.png?resize=240%2C347&amp;ssl=1 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 502px) 100vw, 502px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Requiem \u00e6ternam dona eis, Domine<br \/>\nEt lux perpetua luceat eis:<br \/>\nRequiescant in pace. Amen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rest in the peace of the Lord, Tom Jordan. You wouldn&#8217;t want any maudlin words or ceremony, but you can&#8217;t stop me now. You could be the most irritating son of a bitch, but you could make me laugh even at that. You never did anything in half-measures. You never let the impossible get in the way of whatever you [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-87526","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-moments-in-time"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1aGBK-mLI","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":76,"url":"https:\/\/www.thomryng.com\/amateurmonk\/happy-beethovens-birthday\/","url_meta":{"origin":87526,"position":0},"title":"Happy Beethoven&#8217;s Birthday!","author":"Thom","date":"16 December 2009","format":false,"excerpt":"Today I resolve to listen to the Ninth Symphony, and probably the Third as well. 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